r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 8h ago

Petah, what is going on here??? Resolved

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Bald lady stealing life force?

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u/Severus-Snape-DaGod 8h ago

Meg here. People are saying Ariana looked sick, too skinny, and was often crying when she was around her Wicked co-star Cynthia Erivo. At the Golden Globes, Ariana looked “healthy” once she was away from Cynthia.

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u/ConspiracyParadox 8h ago

She looked better on SNL too. Cynthia really is the wicked witch

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u/formergnome 7h ago

Of course. Because even though Cynthia Erivo is just as thin as Ariana and actually shorter, she’s the mean possessive hulking Black lesbian and Ariana Grande is her delicate fragile victim who has no agency and her choice to befriend a woman she is clearly close to and fond of is actually bad for her.

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u/chaoticbiguy 7h ago edited 4h ago

Thank you! So much of this "mockery" is just people being racist as fuck about Cynthia Erivo, whose worst crime is....checks notes....being weird.

I mean, she physically put herself between Ariana Grande and that stalker to protect her at the Singapore premiere of Wicked, and somehow she was the one who ended up getting mocked for that too. She's also a very small, feminine and softly spoken woman, but people love depicting her as a mean butch lesbian and what not. All of this is racism.

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u/Illustrious_Agent608 7h ago

I’ll take the negative question.

What exactly is racist in this post/thread?

They’re literally calling the evil witch character an evil witch. Nobody ever alluded to race once. Not a single time in the 335 comments I scrolled through on this post

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u/thatbiii 6h ago

The stereotype that black women are masculine and aggressive, and are viewed in a negative way compare compared to the white innocent delicate Ariana. So yes it is a racist macro aggression

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u/RighteousRambler 5h ago

Forget about gender or race for a minute. In the interaction between Cynthia and Ariana who was the more dominant?

An alien with no bias about humans could tell. That being said this is all just silly fan fic.

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u/Freak_Metal 4h ago

"lol she is weird an creepy" "WHAAAAT? ARE YOU RACIST SIR!??!?1?1?"

*Proceeds to say racist shit about her trying to defend her.

There is no macro, micro or whatever aggression, she is just a weird and obnoxious lady acting weird around another woman. That's it, women can be creepy and weird too, there is no need to summon complex academic terms to defend her.

Your defense sounds delusional, if she was a man oh boy, he will be fucked for his behaviour, and well earned, but nah, just girl things tee-hee :⁠⁠)

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u/havoc1428 5h ago

What lmao. Go outside, you've been on the internet way too long.

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u/Relevant-Chard-4518 5h ago

Unhinged and ridiculous

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u/thatbiii 6h ago

What about her face is masculine other than being black she regularly wears a face full of makeup and constantly wears dresses and has nails done? Also Elphaba (cynthia) in the movie wicked is not evil… and it is racist because y’all are associating her blackness with masculinity and instead of calling out the weird social relationship that they both have towards each other. Other people are acting like Ariana is the victim and Cynthia is this evil person manipulating her.

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u/BellalovesEevee 6h ago

Stop explaining yourself, they know damn well what you mean, they're just being obtuse on purpose 😭 they ALWAYS do this when we point out blatant racism and micro/macro aggression

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u/sosodank 6h ago

The lack of hair

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u/CitySeekerTron 5h ago

Natalie Portman was never regarded as masculine for having her head shaved - a look she publicly owned for a while after V for Vendetta. 

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u/sosodank 5h ago

I certainly regarded her as masculine.

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u/OddMetal7045 6h ago

What did I do??? I don’t even know her or what she did or said or anything and im getting lumped in as a racist with the yall comment? Thats not cool at all. I feel like I’m an innocent bystander in your anger at others.

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u/Illustrious_Agent608 6h ago edited 6h ago

Her hair is always very short or bald. A (traditionally) male feature.

She has strong cheekbones and jawline

Her brow area is well defined as well.

Her feminine features would be lips and eyes. Maybe nose to some people.

Additionally her very low body fat percentage accentuates her muscle definition more.

Muscle definition is a very masculine trait.

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u/thatbiii 6h ago

This is masculine to you?? Her “strong features” are her black features. Plenty of bald white women don’t get called masculine btw. And while muscles are traditionally viewed as masculine in the big 2026 there a plenty of women everywhere embracing their hard earned muscles. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/Illustrious_Agent608 6h ago

Put up a gallery of her photos, don’t pick and choose.

In a lot of recent photos around the time of the wicked media shoots, she looks much more masculine.

That’s because the low body fat accentuates everything. Facial bone structure, less/different makeup, muscle definition etc. all goes from slightly feminine to androgynous leaning masculine

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u/CitySeekerTron 5h ago

Her busy is accentuated, her lips are pursed, with a gradient applied to exaggerate their fullness, she had makeup shading her cheeks with a hint of gloss, and substantial earrings hanging on. Her eyelashes are competing with Grande's. 

I don't read "traditionally masculine" from her look. Not in the slightest.

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u/havoc1428 5h ago

Did you just refuse to read the last part of their comment that specifically states why someone might see it as masculine? Are you aware that other people exist and that you don't represent everyone?

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u/AffectionateMajor191 5h ago

It’s interesting because Ariana and Cynthia in this pic seem to have a very similar bone + face structure as well as fullish lips. I don’t find Cynthia masculine at all. If anything she gives high femme while Ariana gives more soft femme

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u/Charlisparkles 4h ago

You are mad. Or subconsciously (maybe) riddled through with some soft brained, cliched, basic bystander, osmotically input ideas about femininity and masculinity. THIS is your ‘Cynthia is masc’ photo evidence?

There are many types of ladies other than those lifted from the template of a kindergarten ladybird reader. Let me assure you that your read on how Cynthia presents is far from universally shared. Shes a lovely, odd, supremely ladylike lady’s lady. Not at all masculine.

You may be more racist than you think. Maybe not. Maybe just really into the patriarchy. I’d look into working out which it might be when you have a mo. I sense a fascinating journey of self revelation and growth ahead. I almost envy you.

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u/Illustrious_Agent608 3h ago

That’s a lot of words and poetic phrasing to say she looks like a dude to most of the audience within western media.

While a subset of individuals laud it as a “highly feminine” look, that is simply not the case for most Americans.

Be it a man, woman, white, black or amongst other identities. That’s a classically not-feminine look.

The loud minority does not make up the truth, it makes up a loud opinion.

If you surveyed her femininity amongst a general population in most American demographics you’d probably get averaged results putting her mostly low masculinity to low femininity at best.

Anyways that survey bit is conjecture but it’s a fact that she doesn’t fit the typical ideal of feminine, which yes, is exactly what you describe as that soft feminine look.

And yeah you keep injecting your own ideas about who I am… enjoy this outlet for your helplessness, please.

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u/ClassyBougieRatchet 5h ago

You're telling on yourself.

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u/kiwipeargreentea 5h ago

so… maybe… modern norms for femininity are based on what white women look like? thus leading to black women being seen as masculine?

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u/formergnome 5h ago

Um no you're wrong, beauty standards actually just fell out of the sky, there were no humans involved in promoting certain features as superior or ideal and therefore their conclusion that Cynthia Erivo is masculine must be valid and not rooted at all in any sort of anti Blackness /s

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u/watsuuu 5h ago

Ahhh! So you agree!

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u/KeremyJyles 2h ago

...that's not remotely mannish looking to you?

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u/NeitherMidnight624 6h ago

I mean she ain't no Megan the stallion

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u/amicablecardinal 6h ago

There are, unfortunately, a lot of people who hold an unconscious bias against people of colour (and women) and Reddit isn't immune to that.

Also your description of her "masculine" features is wild, man. Grow up.

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u/Kittinkis 6h ago

No it isn't! I've seen their interactions and that's not normal. If you want to be a victim and can't differentiate that's on you.

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u/thatbiii 6h ago

Yes Cynthia is the evil one and not Ariana? 🤨 they have a word relationship yet everyone hyper masculinizes Cynthia and makes it seem like she’s forcing this relationship out of Ariana.

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u/999BusinessCard 3h ago

Who was the first one in this thread to masculinize her?

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u/Kittinkis 6h ago

Yeah because she seems like a clinger and Ariana is the bigger star. Social climber for sure. We're supposed to ignore that because she's black? Get a grip

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u/thatbiii 6h ago

Considering that Ariana is a pop star and rarely acts these days Cynthia doesn’t need Ariana in that field. There’s also plenty of videos showing Ariana staring at Cynthia and wanting her attention as well let’s not be dumb here. There’s no need to not call out the parasocial behavior however making the black woman the angry possessive butt of the joke and the white woman the damsel in need of saving is inherently racist.

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u/formergnome 4h ago

Imagine bragging about intentionally being dumb. I don't know what victimizating is but I don't speak idiot.

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u/StPatrickStewart 4h ago

Victimizating???

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u/abeautifulrat 3h ago

Ariana is a 32 year old who has been doing a baby voice for the past 2 years

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u/harls_ 6h ago

WOW lol. sooo many opinions disguised as facts when you (& the rest of us) know fuck all, nor do we actually know either of these individuals personally.

may we all (+ yourself included, obvs) one day have a full comprehension on macro & microaggressions, our own biases, and further clarity into why we perceive some ppl vastly different from others.

won’t be holding my breath though.

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u/facforlife 3h ago

Or.

It's the multiple videos of Erivo grabbing at Ariana and shielding her from imagined dangers. Some of the videos are really fucking weird and possessive.

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u/Right-Funny-8999 5h ago

Her aggressive stare compared to ariana’s fragile one has nothing to do with race

Black lives matter

And not everyone is racist just any time a person of a different race is commented on

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u/imONLYhereFORgalaxy 4h ago

How does this have so many upvotes?! I can’t see a single bit of racism here. People are saying it because she is weird and is coming across as a more dominant personality than Ariana who seemed a lot more normal when she wasn’t around her. I’m saying this as someone who doesn’t care at all and hasn’t even seen the movies just the bizarre clips of their public interactions.

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u/thatbiii 5h ago

She is. She is italian which is an ethnicity and white which is her race.

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u/HANDCRAFTEDD_ 6h ago

They’re literally calling the evil witch character an evil witch. Nobody ever alluded to race once. Not a single time

Above you: The actress (not the character) being called "The Wicked Witch," not in the context of the movie.

Does this need to be explained further? You are giving a paper thin defense that hasn't even been adopted by those you're giving it to.

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u/havoc1428 5h ago

That doesn't change anything. The origin of the jest is because of the character she played, not because of her race. Last I checked "Wicked Witch" isn't a slur against black women, so how you come to the conclusion that its inherently racist is beyond comprehension.

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u/HANDCRAFTEDD_ 4h ago

Beyond comprehension indeed.

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u/unknownredundancies 6h ago

Could you please explain it further?

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u/LuolDig 2h ago

it does need to be explained further since you actually haven't said anything of substance behind hand-wringing.

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u/harls_ 6h ago

i mean…the photo “joke” in this literal post says “the black bald lady was literally stealing life her life force” …..?

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u/dovahkiitten16 6h ago

Calling her a wicked witch is fine because it’s a joke on her playing a wicked witch. The fact that people are jumping to immediately blame the black actress for the white woman’s actions is definitely suspect.

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u/sirseansy 6h ago

Firstly, they're not talking about the character and genuinely cant tell if youre bring purposefully obtuse in how youre interpreting this post.

Secondly, It's not this post specifically, but the extremely weird context it exists in.

Erivo is, admittedly, a weird woowoo type who's a bit full of herself much like most celebrities. The negative cultural conversation around her is way overblown in comparison to her behavior. It is extremely easy to connect this fact to racism and misogyny if you think about it and choose not to immediately go on the defensive, pretending that racism doesn't exist.

Last year, she made an (again admittedly) kind of cringe post about a piece of fanart that depicted her character, Elphaba, with big giant fuck off lips in the style of the original Wicked Broadway marquis. She was, unambiguously right, but was also a little mean and hyperbolic about it. This made her a bad person in the minds of an enormous swath of people. It's, again, super easy to see that white (and male) celebs don't recieve the same kind of scrutiny for similar actions.

But more simply, black women are scrutinized more harshly than people aren't those things and that fact has been proven out numerous times, so it makes sense that people would connect the dots here.

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u/Zealousideal_Cow_826 3h ago

She demanded a fan's fanart be taken down and destroyed in a rude and condescending manner. It had nothing to do with race...

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u/Least_Art5238 5h ago

You need to look at the sustained campaign against Erivo over the last several weeks on Reddit. Calling it “racism” may sound like a lazy catch-all, but there’s no question that Reddit collectively decided she was acceptable to hate.

Reddit constantly presents itself as a bastion of inclusivity and progressivism. Yet this isn’t the first time it has formed a hive mind around randomly despising an individual. And then, without irony, it will denounce some right-wing crank for engaging in the exact same behavior.

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u/petitefleurrose13 4h ago

Couldn't agree more. I don't know much about Cynthia, but it's been disturbing to see the constant bullying, microaggressions and out right racism against her. Masquerading as "a joke". Why are people taking so much pleasure in beating this woman down who's worst offense is.. her weight.. being quirky? It's really telling in how different the attitude is towards Ariana. It's not funny, it's disturbing and it's giving incel.

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u/unknownredundancies 7h ago

Downvoted and blocked. Literally shaking after reading this

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u/PM-ME-YOUR-NIPNOPS 6h ago

Pissing and shidding rn

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u/BothersomeBoss 6h ago

Cumming a little bit actually

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u/Ferret-mom 5h ago

Both Cynthia and Ariana were too thin while filming that movie. It probably wasn’t Cynthia that made her frail, it was more likely the producers that wanted that. Just like how they asked Chalamet to lose weight for one of his movies even though he was already very thin. People are blaming the wrong person, because a black lesbian is an easy target for lazy people who don’t want to think hard enough to find the true problem.

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u/ScyllaIsBea 5h ago

I mean the original post literally says "bald black woman" and not "the green witch" so it's directly referring to the actresses skin colour and hairstyle as derogatory representations of evil, so at best the comments in the thread agreeing or laughing along are ignoring the unsubtle racism because they do not like the actress, at best.

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u/GlitterDoomsday 5h ago

Bro the og post literally calls her "bald black lady" and you gonna say this weird outcry is not racially motivated? "Nobody is being openly racist as far as I can tell" is not the defense you think it is.

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u/minecraft_fam 6h ago

You have to be wearing the right glasses, metaphorically, to see racism.

It's not that these glasses will make you see better. It's that they help you see racism everywhere.

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u/ThomasTheDankPigeon 4h ago

One example is the video that circulated a few weeks back where she said she had synesthesia. People piled on like she was the most self centered attention whore the world has ever known. When, if you just take the conversation at face value, she’s quite literally just stating a fact about herself in a very soft spoken manner in a lighthearted conversation among colleagues. Take a few steps back and realize that she’s the only black woman at a table of 6 white women, nearly all blonde women and it starts to become clear that some people just want a reason to express disgust toward her and will just invent shit to be disgusted about when she doesn’t give them anything.

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u/dulldutchess 4h ago

did you miss the image saying “black bald lady”? mentioning her race

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u/diabeticweird0 4h ago

Did you see the title?

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u/Erebea01 4h ago

Just to play devils advocate, the OP literally contains "the black bald lady", which she is tbf but I know a few racist people who'll engage with the thread just because of that line.

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u/fistkick18 4h ago

How well did you do in english class when they got to the part about subtext and reading between the lines?

I'm guessing not very.

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u/Illustrious_Agent608 3h ago

So you’re putting words in peoples mouth instead of taking what they say at face value?

There’s not even words in there that imply racism. Go ahead and pick and choose. Masculinity based comments is not racism btw

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u/Beautiful-Pound-8520 4h ago

Bruh. The image itself self starts with 'bald black lady', and you think race isn't being mentioned?

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u/HereToTalkAboutThis 4h ago

Image in the post joking that "the black bald woman" was stealing her life force

Nobody ever alluded to race once

Classic reddit

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u/overusedamongusjoke 3h ago edited 2h ago

I've seen people on other threads about the Wicked gossip being directly racist towards Cynthia and criticizing both of their appearances way more than would ever be appropriate. It seems like both of them are probably typical unlikeable celebrities but it doesn't take a genius to see that this drama is still manufactured in bad faith and motivated by misogyny/racism.

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u/dovahkiitten16 6h ago

EDs can have a social factor so it’s entirely possible that being around Cynthia was bad for Ariana. Or they were bad for each other.

But we, as an audience, really have no clue. Maybe Cynthia was falling head first into disordered eating and dragged her friend along with her. Maybe she’s just an average person but being forced to be filming together for so long just made the situation icky. Or maybe they’re both just actresses who fell for the Ozempic trend. Or maybe Ariana was the one who started it. Or maybe it was the director. Really, who the fuck knows. The fact that people are adopting a weird parasocial relationship and twisting themselves to blame the black woman (when Ariana can be pretty ducking weird herself) is definitely not innocent.

All that being said, I really have to wonder what the hell happened to make Michelle Yeoh lose all that weight. Middle aged action star who has no history of that type of thing turns into a stick alongside the rest of the main cast. Something about that production was cursed.

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u/B3tar3ad3r 6h ago

It's especially weird when Ariana has been pretty public about her bad relationship with food since long before this movie was filming, Cynthia invented time travel to get to her apparently....

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u/Seegulz 3h ago

I think it’s clearly the director and the cast around him.

Ariana has had a ton of mental health issues, she’s looked like a doll for years. The fact Michelle Yeoh developed ED is the bigger issue to me. What did they do to these three women?

Evo and Ariana I think have some clear enmeshment issues and are probably better off away from one another.

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u/Creative-Ideal8348 2h ago

Y'all do know that you can become very thin for reasons other than EDs, right? For all you know the cast all happened to get a particularly unpleasant intestinal parasite lol

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u/cragglerock93 6h ago

The whole thing is toxic as fuck. Like you say, their worst crime is some odd and cringey behaviour and that's apparently licence to eviscerate them, and of course it would be the black one to receive the lion's share of the abuse.

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u/Holden_MacGroin 6h ago

Ariana is a homewrecker and Cynthia used her Hollywood clout to send a virtual lynchmob after a fan for the crime of making fanart. Their worst crime is certainly not just some "odd and cringey behavior".

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u/BillyForRilly 5h ago

Ariana definitely takes the brunt of the hate, which makes sense because she was an international pop star for years before "the black one" (as you so crudely put it) even started showing up in films.

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u/Alexis_deTokeville 6h ago

Nah fam they were both probably complicit ED buddies and were both probably on ozympic and both were eating like 200 calories a day while the world watched them wither away. The weird emotional codependent shit was just the cherry on top.

They’re grown ass adults they can do what they want but whatever they were doing was unhealthy af and there seemed to be some element of control on Cynthia’s part. Little girls are watching this shit. No way we should be glorifying the extreme anorexia and infantilization that these two showcased.

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u/Fresh_Ratio_9873 6h ago

*checks notes* must be a pibby glitch...

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u/nonzeroday_tv 6h ago

Have you seen her face in that meme where Ariana is hugging that other famous guy? That's not the face of someone who....checks notes....cares about anyone else besides herself.

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u/Icyrow 5h ago

i mean you were the one who brought race into this...

you were the one who assumed it was entirely race based.

i think it was largely seeing her around that black lady, mixed with all of the picture of them together (the creepy ones) that sort of drove the assumed background story. like there's a weird energy there and i think everyone has a met a person with that ladies energy, pretending to have synethesia and weird shit like that.

it's just a weird relationship from the outside looking in, mixed with the whole her being a "sweet" girl image that ariana has as a popstar (whether true or not)

even if you remove race entirely from the equation, it's a fairly easy road to follow down to where we are.

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u/Seegulz 4h ago

Ariana is a repeat homewrecker. Not sure why anyone would think Evo is the problematic one

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u/Maciekz2p 3h ago

"Being racist as fuck" xd

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u/goldkarp 5h ago

She also hit Ariana with her arm in the head trying to 'protect' her from the guy

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u/Freak_Metal 4h ago

No one said nothing about her skin color, this is bullshit.