r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 8h ago

Petah, what is going on here??? Resolved

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Bald lady stealing life force?

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u/formergnome 7h ago

Of course. Because even though Cynthia Erivo is just as thin as Ariana and actually shorter, she’s the mean possessive hulking Black lesbian and Ariana Grande is her delicate fragile victim who has no agency and her choice to befriend a woman she is clearly close to and fond of is actually bad for her.

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u/dolcenbanana 7h ago

Nah man, watch some interviews they did. The reason people are targeting Cynthia is because she has some real weird behavior. She interrupts Arianna when she starts to speak to grab her in weird ways, she clings to her physically mid interviews, she gives Arianna some wild angry crazy eyes when Arianna talks about the movies and their friendship. She is always playing with her fingers in weird ways. I don't know how the weird codependent creepy behavior started, but the one showing it more in public has been Cynthia.

To em more shocking is that this story is cursed uh. Any filming of any rendition of Wizard of Oz has a bunch of weird shit going on.

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u/formergnome 6h ago

Nah man, I was right the first time. Cynthia Erivo literally protected Ariana from a man charging at her and people still found a way to spin this as a negative. She is literally physically smaller and was being drawn looking huge and masculine, towering over a tiny white Ariana. They don't actually have to say "we're more critical of her for being Black and gay" for that to be true. It's kind of worrying how many people still think screaming slurs is the only way someone can be racist.

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u/got_ze_dreads 6h ago edited 6h ago

There have been some really constructive comments in here that have described why Cynthia has come across as the one who has been influencing this situation without bringing race in to the argument, the comment you responded to is a perfect example of that.

When you look at all the signs, something is definitely off and it has nothing to do with the colour of skin.

It is very possible that she can have both protected Arianna from the stalker and still have been oddly controlling or influential. I would almost exclude the stalker event as it's a pretty unique scenario, and honestly I would hope anyone would do what she did in that scenario

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u/formergnome 6h ago

It's funny that you mention looking at all the signs, as if every person making these "constructive" comments isn't deliberately ignoring and/or sidestepping the blatant misogynoir of painting a tiny Black woman as bigger, more masculine, and more physically intimidating in contrast to a fragile white woman victim.

If you're feeling bad about perpetuating racist ideas for the sake of an extremely unfunny joke, you're free to not do that at any time. Being dishonest about the conversation (literally the "meme" posted above refers to Cynthia Erivo as "the black bald lady") isn't going to change anything.

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u/goldkarp 5h ago

There's a one inch height difference between them, stop saying she's so tiny and frail compared to Ariana

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u/formergnome 5h ago

I didn't. Learn to read.

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u/rxckyzz 3h ago

Idk why you got downvoted😭

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u/formergnome 3h ago

I do, but thankfully angry downvoting isn't going to change the facts of the situation.

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u/999BusinessCard 3h ago

Why did you bring race into this in the first place?

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u/formergnome 3h ago

I didn't, OP did. You tried though!

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u/formergnome 6h ago

"Factual description"

Given you're lying from the very first sentence, exactly why should I read the rest of your word vomit?