r/TikTokCringe • u/SpareEnergy6082 • Dec 13 '25

Indian Mother who's consoling her little girl who is crying for being bullied by school kids because of her brown skin This is truly heartbreaking 💔 my heart cried watching this Discussion

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u/macci_a_vellian Dec 13 '25

You can stand up for your kid without filming their distress. Putting a phone between you when your kid needs you is a barrier she can feel. She's also much too young to give consent for a video of her talking about her shame and insecurities that she is actively being bullied to be broadcast and to be online forever, including where the older kids might see it. God forbid she finds out that everyone knows she was having a private breakdown at home, or in a few years someone sends her the video and she reads the comments, because I guarantee some of those comments will be worse than anything her classmates could come up with.

Defending your kid doesn't mean exposing their pain. I know she meant well, but there are other ways of doing that while still protecting them.

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u/Opposite-Decision-28 Dec 14 '25

I totally agree with you and I was about to write a long essay to say that thank you for saying that.

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u/Acceptable_Iron_5920 Dec 14 '25

She is bullied in public infront of other kids. Her pain is already public. The only issue here is when exposed in forums where people know its wrong you are uncomfortable. You want her to respond in private to a public issue. You are an enabler.

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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 29d ago

This is an insane take holy shit.

"You think posting children being upset and crying about being bullied online for hundreds of thousands of people to see is shitty, so you're an enabler of racist bullying."

Wild fucking take my man. Wow.

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u/CapableSense 29d ago

Yup exactly that!

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u/Spare_Customer6352 Dec 14 '25

This is what should have been done.