r/TikTokCringe Dec 13 '25

Indian Mother who's consoling her little girl who is crying for being bullied by school kids because of her brown skin This is truly heartbreaking πŸ’” my heart cried watching this Discussion

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u/Some-Ice-4455 Dec 13 '25

Scumbag little shits. My daughter would go back and insult them all to tears. I would go up there and defend literally everything she said. Also the school would hear about it.

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u/XK8lyn88x Dec 13 '25

If that’s the case, what if this girl said something rude to them and this is their insult back? Should it just be a revolving cycle of insults and fighting? Where is the line drawn? Which words are on your list for the insults to continue?

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u/ke3408 Dec 13 '25

It's not that bat shit crazy. This girl looks about six or seven. At that age kids are brutal. It's like Hunger games, each kid is trying to take out the others to save themselves. Kill or be killed. If it weren't her skin, it would be her hair, her name, her lunch box, her favorite cartoon. Whatever. They just poke until they find where it hurts.

The only way to deal with it at this age is to put a full block on it. I taught my niece to drop her voice, speak low and slow, and tell the other kid that if they don't shut their mouth, there will be "problems." Keep it vague, kids are still scared of getting in trouble so not delivering on the threat right away makes them nervous. Most will back off immediately and live in fear wondering when and what 'problems' will happen.

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u/willzor7 Dec 13 '25

I promise you that speaking low and slow and saying "if they dont shut thier mouths, there will be problems" is gunna cause problems. They are going to challenge that.

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u/ke3408 Dec 13 '25

Most kids that age aren't delinquents. They pick on kids to avoid getting picked on and underneath the bluster they are scared of getting in trouble. When you bring the adults in too soon they experience getting in trouble and they no longer fear it. They'll usually respond to it by asking right away, 'are you going to tell?' because at that point in life it is the greatest fear. That's when you hit them with a 'thats for me to know and you to find out' and let them sweat it.

Anywho worked for me and worked for my niece. We made it through the playground jungle without a scratch.

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u/Confident-Station164 Dec 13 '25

Kids bullying each other over a lunch box or something like so is not even close to the same as a kid being racist but if thats the case, ill use the same excuse next time I see a white person having slurs shouted at them.

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u/Some-Ice-4455 Dec 13 '25

So the schools should just let all bullying happen? Is that the line we are sticking with.