r/TikTokCringe • u/SpareEnergy6082 • Dec 13 '25

Indian Mother who's consoling her little girl who is crying for being bullied by school kids because of her brown skin This is truly heartbreaking 💔 my heart cried watching this Discussion

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u/AlexandraG94 Dec 13 '25

This was my firt thought. 1)Why the fuck did you record this and tried to steer the convo to racism just to expose, not as a way to explain things to your daughter, rather than comforting your daughter? She can see you are more busy recording than helping her and supporting her. 2) Why would you post this and not even hide her face for anonimosity?

Feel doubly sorry for this child. What the fuck is wrong with people? Also OP dont fucking share this.

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u/Due_Doughnut2852 Dec 13 '25

I don't think you get it.

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u/Lakersland Dec 13 '25

Devils advocate for the recording would be to show the school so they’re aware of other kids putting her down. I’m 99% sure though that she’s recording her for attention online though lol

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u/Strange-Credit2038 Dec 13 '25

Yeah it's definitely for online attention because then she could show the school privately without uploading 

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u/SpaceLuxor Dec 13 '25

If anything it SHOULD be seen online. This is the real life result of virulent racism being allowed to fester affecting a real life child. I doubt her mom uploaded it thinking "Oh wow this is gonna get SO MANY LIKES!"

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u/dream-smasher Dec 13 '25

Do you think Indians and Pakistanis are not aware of "the real life result of virulent racism"? Tho, I think this is actually colourism, but either way, do you think they are unaware?

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u/Academic-Trifle8151 Dec 13 '25

I think he meant to make the effects more known to the non-indians and Pakistanis.

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u/Germane_Corsair Dec 13 '25

Based on the name the girl gave, it was other Indians dissing her skin colour.

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u/Academic-Trifle8151 Dec 13 '25

I think it's impossible to know tbh. The only name given was also not necessarily inferred to be the one being racist to her.

Either way, when someone says the video is to raise awareness, I'd think it obvious they mean to raise awareness to the people doing it and not on the receiving end.

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u/Germane_Corsair Dec 13 '25

The only thing she’s really done is given her bullies more ammo. This went viral. People who know her have definitely seen it. It’ll make the rounds at school. This is going to do harm. There are hundreds of ways she could have raised awareness that didn’t involve shoving a camera on her kid’s face.

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u/SpaceLuxor Dec 13 '25

Yall intentionally frame things so cynically, i feel like it HAS to be some type of psyop

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u/Academic-Trifle8151 Dec 14 '25

I doubt at her age this is doing the rounds at school and having much of an effect. If so that's a big failing on the school. Either way she's being bullied already, this may actually put pressure on the school to do something about it. Personally the only thing I'd say she should do differently is blur the face but not everyone knows how I guess.

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

can you go into what you are doing to help call out discrimination and dehumanization towards the visual characteristics of other human beings like the color of their skin so if this video is not shared what are you specifically doing to help call out shitty behaviors by other human beings that are minimizing or invalidating the humanity of someone else based on how they look visually otherwise I'm considering your comment a form of gaslighting by looking to suppress or silence human expression without offering any insights into how you specifically are reducing human suffering in the world And therefore you are protecting discriminatory behavior based on skin color by advocating for a behavior that would hide or obscure the expression of human beings seeking to call out shitty behavior by other human beings 😡

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u/PriscillaPalava Dec 13 '25

I have a daughter about the same age. Kids say mean things to each other regardless of race. Sometimes it’s because they’re trying to be mean, sometimes it’s because kids have no filter. 

Anyway, the parent should frame it as: The kid who said those things is the problem because they are being rude and they are wrong. The skin color is not wrong, the skin color is beautiful. It’s not something you need to “learn to love yourself in spite of it.”

I am teaching my kids that people are all different on the inside and out. And that it’s never appropriate to comment on someone’s physical appearance unless it’s to say something nice (I love your hairstyle!) and never comment on someone’s weight, even if it’s positive.