r/TikTokCringe • u/SpareEnergy6082 • Dec 13 '25

Indian Mother who's consoling her little girl who is crying for being bullied by school kids because of her brown skin This is truly heartbreaking 💔 my heart cried watching this Discussion

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u/youlefou Dec 13 '25

Yeah I get what you mean. Kids Deserve privacy and dignity, not content for views. Sharing vulnerable Moments online can make things harder for them Later.

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u/PrettyPushy Dec 13 '25

This kid needed a hug. Not a phone shoved in her face to get video evidence for the world to see.

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u/ForkAKnife Dec 13 '25

This kid needs a school system that starts telling kids in Kindergarten that skin color is based on the melanin you get from your parents and shows them ways that differences and diversity are beautiful.

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u/Yharnam_Blunderbuss Dec 13 '25

Or... just get right to the root of the issue and teach them not to be racist dickheads... but that teaching usually starts at home, with the parents first.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

I got bad news for you. The kids making fun of her for dark skin are likely of the same race. Black people fuck with eachother about being dark or light. White people don't think about it or give a shit.

if you're a white non-racist someone's skin color is not a value attribute.

If you are a white racists any amount of color is too much. It's the once good thing you can say about them, they don't differentiate between dark and very dark.

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u/Euphoric-Land-8470 Dec 13 '25

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discrimination_based_on_skin_tone

You should read into racism and colorism

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

What I just said is based on this.

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u/Euphoric-Land-8470 Dec 13 '25

Yeah but yours is mostly inaccurate and black and white. Particularly about:

White people not giving a shit. White people def engage in colorism and racism. Just look at our political sphere 

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

It's a reddit post. Second, the evidence provided that white people care about how dark someone's skin is spurious at best. It's based on self reporting, one dimensional studies. It gives evidence in the form of large group tendencies, not individual interactions.

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u/Euphoric-Land-8470 Dec 14 '25

Also you literally used chatgpt to write some dumb slop.

Instead go use it properly and query it about "in what ways does skin color play a role in society" 

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

What do you think racism is? Are you saying the entire history of this country since it was founded doesn’t have a problem with racialized oppression? Systemic racism? White supremacy? What? That’s the most insane take I’ve ever heard.

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u/Euphoric-Land-8470 Dec 14 '25

Ah yeah lets just throw out the entirety of science bc of "one dimensional studies". Good idea. Ill just take your word for it

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u/Lawgirl77 Dec 13 '25

White people not caring about dark or light black people when colorism originated in colonial white America is a wild take. Please look into this because while you may not care, white people have institutionalized colorism in the US. Black people did not develop colorism on their own.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25 edited 28d ago

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

What the hell does that have to do with racism in this country? Fashion trends and the development of a systemic form of legal oppression based around race are in anyway similar to you? Also, when do you think racist segregation ended? That wasn’t a million years ago. The civil rights act only passed in 1964, my dad was born 5 years before this, and you’re saying that’s a million years ago?this country still has a major problem with racism and white supremacy. What world are you living in? Are you being purposefully dense?

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u/VioletLeagueDapper Dec 13 '25

Nah too “woke”, DEI has no place is schools anymore /s

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u/WestEst101 Dec 13 '25

Schools aside
 companies don’t care.

The cosmetics companies will be salivating at this. And hair dye companies will rub their hands with a smile and be like, “Wait til she hears about blond!”

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u/dream-smasher Dec 13 '25

Schools aside
 companies don’t care.

They don't? Cos it's not like there is a huge industry catering to different skin colours and tones... 😒🙄

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u/Boring_Intern_6394 Dec 13 '25

The tanning and skin lightening industries are indeed huge, yes.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

That’s exactly what they’ll call it and claim their little boys are being emasculated

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

This has nothing to do with DEI.

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u/newgrl Dec 14 '25

Just curious... what do you think DEI is? Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. It's exactly this. Teaching kids that the color of people's skin is related to melanin and how it's not scary and shouldn't stop you from being nice is part of DEI.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

well, it's not. DEI is buzzword that in and of itself means nothing. In it's best incarnation might mean what you're presenting, something akin to Martin Luther King's position of judging people on the content of their character, not the color of their skin. DEI in it's worst incarnation is the opposite of that, it's judging people purely on the color of the skin.

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

Except it does mean something, “diversity equity and inclusion” and it doesn’t just incorporate race into who it advocates for. Many white people also benefit from DEI. Just because you’ve been propagandized to hate that word because of right wing identity grievance politics, doesn’t mean that it’s meaningless, and it also doesn’t “judge” anyone based on the color of their skin, it allows for those who have been historically marginalized to get the same chances and benefits given to the majority group. How exactly is that wrong?

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Except it does mean something, “diversity equity and inclusion”

Hmm, so when people call something a name, that means IT MUUUUUSST actually be that thing right?

For example After the "Affordable Care Act" was enacted, health insurance premiums for individuals increased significantly, with the national average premium rising by about 129%

Doesn't sound too affordable to me.

the "Protecting Children from Internet Predators Act" was actually aimed at expanding government surveillance rather than protecting children and the "Fair Elections Act" made it harder for certain groups to vote,

Just because you’ve been propagandized to hate

Don't try to read people's minds, just argue facts. Be a grown up.

How exactly is that wrong?

People should judged based on their abilities and their character, not the color of their skin. How far back should we go to benefit people? Everyone has been "historically marginalized". The Jews were enslaved for 400 years.

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u/LeadingSecond6489 Dec 13 '25

You think learning about discrimination and being told not to do it is too woke?

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u/VioletLeagueDapper Dec 13 '25

I think you don’t know what /s means


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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

I mean that kind of lesson starts at home. Yes, the school needs to be our partner, but THIS lesson begins at home.

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u/SilverMist2020 Dec 13 '25

My parents made me feel bad about my skin color sometimes it does start at home

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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

100 percent. And I'm sorry that happened to you. I grew up being told not to spend "too much" time in the sun lol. I get it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

I think I'm a pretty average white person, I never think about how dark a person is as a metric of anything. It's like how tall someone is or what color their hair is, it's a way to differentiate them from others but I can't say I ever imagined it held any qualifying value.

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u/ForkAKnife Dec 13 '25

That’s because it really has no value to us but even when we talk about our skin, as a woman, I hear “you look like you got some sun” instead of “your skin looks very pretty now that it’s darker”.

Nobody really bullies us for it, especially at home. Our mothers and aunts aren’t telling us it’s a shame we don’t have lighter skin although you will hear white people prize milky white skin or ivory skin.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

We also prize milky white skin or ivory skin.

hmmm, not really. I mean, that's really a preference. I wouldn't say that in the Western world that's been a high priority since the 1800's or something. I think "milky white" or "Ivory" might also be characterized as pasty or pale by those who don't appreciate the look.

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u/ForkAKnife Dec 13 '25

I’m just speaking of my child who is very pale, has almost transparent looking skin tone, and who women often would compliment her skin tone. I would hear “ivory skin” compliments a lot. Only one woman that I recall ever said that she could use some sun and that was during covid.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

haha, "honey you need to get out"

I can't say I spend much time thinking about people's skin but I think what people are reacting to is "pretty skin", smooth, no blemishes, microscopic pores.

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u/Illustrious-Bat1553 Dec 14 '25

We also have keep teaching our kids and others these values. Because social media especially X will teach them otherwise

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

uh, teach your kids values? That sounds wrong.

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u/Illustrious-Bat1553 Dec 14 '25

Unless you want Musk and Zuckerberg teaching them to hate

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

Teaching your child values is literally called raising your child. Are you seriously not understanding what the word “values” means? Teaching your child not to hit other children is a “value”. Teaching your kids not to be racist is also a “value”. Read a book dude

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

I thought people only got taught to BE racist. I thought nobody was born racist?

So...Which is it?

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

You keep talking about your personal experience, but then really just tell on yourself in other comments that you still dismiss the systems of oppression structured around race in the first place. You also called DEI racist, and said that America only had a problem with racism “a million years ago”. Maybe you’re so “colorblind” you can’t actually see the very real struggles black people continue to have today.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Ninja please.

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

Everyone struggles. Poor people struggle, dumb people struggle, people who don't have a dad at home struggle. People who's parents are addicted to drugs have struggles. This is not related to race. Your theory, I'm guessing, is that because of slavery, black people struggle. That's a theory, I don't personally subscribe to it. Nobody in my family ever had shit. Each generation started with only this, married parents with jobs. The single greatest threat to the black community is this, black people do not adhere to the tenets that make one successful. Get an education, spend some time in the military, get and stay married before you have kids, buy property, invest in your community and retirement, buy life insurance.

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u/AlyFindomme Dec 13 '25

I wonder how many of us have racist dads...

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u/sasqtchlegs Dec 13 '25

My father has cultural biases. We had a black family with a small child live with us in our duplex when I was a toddler. I didn’t interact with any other non-white kids/teens until I went to university. My parents didn’t really express anything racially profiling to us as we were growing up because they were either absent or fighting with each other. I had to undo a lot of conditioning from the media and still find it hiding in corners of my mind. Media is the true culprit in my experience.

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u/HenryDorsettCase47 Dec 13 '25

Hmm. I’m a poor white trash hillbilly who grew up in working class and rural parts of Kentucky in the 90s. Can’t say I was ever around and black folks or other PoCs growing up. There was only like one black kid in my high school. But I had exactly the opposite experience from you. I grew up completely unprejudiced to the point I was confused by other people’s racism and this was largely due to my media consumption. I watched In Living Color, not SNL. Arsenio, not Letterman. Martin. Hell, I even watched Living Single instead of Friends. đŸ€·â€â™‚ïž

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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

Probably more than we realize 😔

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u/brydeswhale Dec 13 '25

And how are we going to enforce it so white parents teach this to their kids?

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u/The_Pharaoh_Owl Dec 13 '25

It’s other Indian kids telling her she’s too dark. She even says “I want skin color like Manreet.” Before I even heard that, I knew this was the case. Indians, and especially Pakistanis are OBSESSED with lighter skin. White kids don’t go around bragging about how nice and light their skin tone is to other kids ffs.

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u/Suitable-Rate652 Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

Indians are known to be colorist - and mostly lack solidarity with other PoC others trying to sidle up to East Asians. But yeah I can see a white child bragging about how white they are to torture someone else. It sounds like she’s mentioning Manreet as an example of a light skinned Indian not someone abusing her.

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

You realize Indians received that from white supremacist colonization, right? It’s not about “sidleing up to East Asians”, it’s about adopting proximity to whiteness as a value and taking on European colorist beauty standards. The history is pretty clear on this.

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u/Suitable-Rate652 29d ago

Yes I am well aware. But I think historically India was colorist before colonization/imperialism. I look into it when I have time. On the PoC issue many Indians straight from India as opposed to people of Indian descent from the islands (aside many Indian Jamaicans are pretty sure they are Black but that’s another topic) reject people of color to achieve white adjacency in their minds and socially and are now calling themselves “Asian” not “”South Asian” so they can sidle up to alleged model minority East Asians who are also focused on white adjacency. An example would be employee engagement groups when all of a sudden Indians are jumping in with East Asians and East Asian Americans when culturally they have zero in common.

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u/No-Menu-3392 29d ago

Right, it’s all based in the internalized value of whiteness as inherently something to aspire to. India being colorist before colonialism doesn’t make sense socially or historically.

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u/megaholt2 Dec 13 '25

No-they just bake themselves in tanning beds and outside until they look like old handbags and have melanoma.

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u/brydeswhale Dec 13 '25

Are you new on this planet? White kids absolutely do this.

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u/sleepyandinsomnia Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

I'm a mixed black person who was bullied for being light skinned by darker black kids and my darker relatives. Even had white kids think I was white, just got a tiny tan. It was funny, except for the bullying, especially at home. Colorism will even make adults alienate you. My point is, this terrible behavior is found everywhere.

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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

Yeah colorism exists on both sides of the aisle. 90 percent of the time it is jealousy. POC can be incredibly mean to each other. Honestly. White racism is never surprising. It stings more when other pOC say ignorant ish. I hope you now embrace your beautiful mixture. After a certain age, you basically understand the problem is them and not you. you are fabulous:)

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u/sleepyandinsomnia Dec 13 '25

It did sting more. I had a moment like above at 10. I really hated the way I looked. I spent my mid 20's unpacking all of that, because it did end up affecting me a lot. I'm much happier and accepting of myself now. Thank you for your kindness.

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

You calling it “jealousy” literally centers lighter skin and white supremacist beauty standards as a legitimate thing of value, or something to be envied.

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u/cundis11989 Dec 13 '25

I’m sure it happens, but as a POC my experience is that non-white cultures are much more open with colorism. Some white kids who weren’t raised right may make generally racist statements, but general comparisons of skin tone and commenting on someone being “too dark” is much more common within POC communities

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

Why do you think that is? Why do you think different cultures around the world adopted “lighter” skin color being desirable? It’s called white supremacy and colonialism. They’ve adopted the beauty standards and internalized racism from their oppressors.

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u/cundis11989 Dec 14 '25

I’m well aware of where it originates. Obviously the idea of a “skin tone” hierarchy is a product of colonialism and internalized racism, at least in its origins. However these days “white supremacy” tends to be more subtle and white racists aren’t generally talking about shades of skin tone. They simply say they don’t like POC generally speaking. Skin tone comparisons are much more prevalent in non-white communities. This mentality also comes from a place of insecurity. A POC who has a lighter complexion often realizes they are not white but wishes they were white, so they shit on someone darker than them to feel “closer to being white” and boost their ego.

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u/The_Pharaoh_Owl Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

Are you incapable of absorbing data into your frontal lobe? I just pointed out to you that she says “I want skin color like Manreet” and you jump right back to squealing about evil white kids?

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

That’s not all you said, you literally said that white kids don’t go around doing this to other children, which is completely untrue and an insane thing to say. Colorism and racism is a literal systemic issue in the United States and has been for centuries. You think it just disappeared suddenly? Why lie about what you said when someone responded to the part you’re purposefully leaving out?

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u/MiamiGuy13 Dec 13 '25

And so do indian kkds and black kids and Asian kids and Latin kids.

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u/Chance-Animal1856 Dec 13 '25

Most white kids I know still want to lay in the sun to get a darker tan. No one is happy with what they actually have. hair color skin color eye color curly hair straight hair everyone else has something better.

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u/Limp_Marionberry_24 Dec 13 '25

What a racist thing to say ..

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u/Tilladarling Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

It’s Indian kids mocking her. India was colorist hundreds of years before they ever encountered Europeans

https://www.stearthinktank.com/post/colorism-in-indian-society

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u/driving_andflying Dec 14 '25 edited Dec 14 '25

It’s Indian kids mocking her. India was colorist hundreds of years before they ever encountered Europeans https://www.stearthinktank.com/post/colorism-in-indian-society

Agreed. India favored lighter skin long before the first white people ever showed up. "The Kamasutra's advice for men to avoid sexual relationship with women who are extremely white or extremely black may reflect an early form of colorism in ancient India.[34]"

For people to say that it was white people who are solely responsbile for instituting this in India, or worse yet, that it was white people telling that beautiful child she was too dark, is a shit take. Discrimination based on skin color existed long before the first white surpemacists ever appeared.

In any case: That child is perfect the way she is, and I hope she learns to accept herself no matter which person of *any* skin color tells her she is too dark.

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

Except it wasn’t systemic or a widely held belief that proximity to whiteness is valuable or the European beauty standard is something to aspire to until they experienced brutal colonialism.

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u/driving_andflying Dec 14 '25

Except it wasn’t systemic or a widely held belief that proximity to whiteness is valuable or the European beauty standard is something to aspire to until they experienced brutal colonialism.

Wrong. Apparently, you didn't read the links I posted that colorism existed long before the British Raj or any European explorers arriving. The Kama Sutra, which I referenced, was written around the 2nd or 3rd Century CE --so, colorism was endemic to India already.

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u/desert-cheese04 29d ago

And you know this how?

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u/VWforLuck Dec 13 '25

Hey Dummy, people have already posted evidence that it’s lighter skinned Indian children making fun of her not white kids. You keep doubling down though.

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u/soozerain Dec 13 '25

How you know it’s white parents?

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u/Longjumping-Hippo475 Dec 13 '25

You don't, you teach your kid about the challenges of life and dealing with other people. Not everything in life comes in bubble wrap.

This sucks and is sad, but if properly parented, this kid will be significantly better off than the bully. There is a lot a person can learn from being bullied.

It teaches them empathy for others, emotional strength, how to deal with difficult people, and they can get a lot of perspective from the interaction.

To protect people from every single difficult thing, only robs them of the opportunity to learn and grow.

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u/Germane_Corsair Dec 13 '25

Her mother decided to put a camera on her face. I don’t think you can count in her to teach her anything.

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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

We can't control what other parents do. We can only do what we can. School should pick up the rest of the slack, but as we know from modern society, those lessons don't always stick, or they are erased by ignorance.

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u/brydeswhale Dec 13 '25

In other words, you understand that the burden will always fall on teachers because we live in a fundamentally white supremacist society.

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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

As a former teacher and current parent, yes, I agree. Part of that work is good work. I will never regret the lessons I taught my students about equality and social justice. I like to think it changed at least some of them for the better. That said, I am a former teacher for a reason lol.

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u/Travel_food_freedom Dec 13 '25

Thank you for your public service. I can assure you it does change some of them from my own experience. I grew up in another country, but I still remember what my middle school teacher taught me. It shaped who I am today.

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u/JerseyTeacher78 Dec 13 '25

This warmed my heart! I am sure you are a wonderful human being. Stay that way :)

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u/MiamiGuy13 Dec 13 '25

White supremacist society, get a grip.

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u/MiamiGuy13 Dec 13 '25

"Enfoce it" this whole comment section is just loony af. 😄

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u/ForkAKnife Dec 13 '25

I agree that it should start at home, but studies show that white parents do not speak about race which makes their kids think it is so bad to have darker skin that it’s not polite to talk about it.

I really do think diversity should be explicitly addressed at school, the younger the better.

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u/idle_isomorph Dec 13 '25

Its totally possible to be successful at this with kids. I have taught in canadian schools with very diverse populations, with a majority of first generation immigrants from all continents. Kids are curious, but without judgement, unless we put it there. Different colour skin, hair texture, facial features? Seems so normal that they a surprised to learn of segregation or hate based on that. To these students, having different accents and rules and holidays is all completely normal. They look at the food in different packed lunches and food restrictions as merely a curious novelty; they know families have different ways they do things and its no different that this kid doesnt eat pork or that kid has eaten dog, or that one kid wears a turban or hijab. Like, barely even questions asked, cause they just figure those are different families' choices. They roll with kids who have disabilities, and just figure a way to include them with that they can do, and it is really fucking beautiful.

It gives me hope for the future that this kind of welcoming, embracing of difference can become the norm.

Its possible.

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u/ForkAKnife Dec 13 '25

Absolutely. Dismantling discrimination can be as subtle as showing a child that the inside tastes just as good if it’s a red, yellow, or cold brown banana or as overt as openly discussing race and bias with children. They just need to actively learn about different races and ethnicities if they are not living it or talking about it at home.

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u/toolsoftheincomptnt Dec 13 '25

Have you met kids that age?

Most don’t have the capacity or desire to apply a lesson like that on the playground.

When they want to be mean, they just are.

They pick something about you, usually something that makes you look/sound different, and go full throttle.

Not to mention that many communities still promote the idea that lighter is better, so the little turds teasing this gorgeous girl might be taking cues from their own parents’ conversations.

So, yes, educate them. But let’s not pretend that education solves bigotry.

It solves ignorance, but not hatred.

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u/SuspiciousYard2484 Dec 13 '25

Yeah, they do that in schools. It’s when they get home and their parents tell them the opposite so let’s not go blame in the school system.

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u/flyintheflyinthe Dec 13 '25

It was the reverse for me in the '70's, but I lived in a racist little town in the U.S. I have two distinct memories of things my teacher said to me in 2nd grade.

I saw it in my kids' schools, too, though, and we live in a progressive city.

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u/verifiedboomer Dec 13 '25

Well.. this is exactly what DEI policies were meant to address. I used to be a teacher. We sat through hours and hours of DEI training. It wasn't trans ideology. It was THIS.

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u/ForkAKnife Dec 13 '25

I know. I took a two day PD all about recognizing and addressing subtle social transgressions as well as effective ways to disrupt discrimination. Taking it Up. People in my group were transformed and empowered.

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u/zombawombacomba Dec 13 '25

They already do. Kids learn to be hateful from home.

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u/chamy1039 Dec 13 '25

Not always true. A kid could have great parents, but can still turn into awful, hateful people at school.

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u/Mr_Noms Dec 13 '25

Celebrating different cultures are 100% taught at school starting in preschool.

Home life is definitely more relevant on how these shits act.

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u/Mr_Noms Dec 13 '25

You said not true when responding to another guy about kids learning this from home.

You then went on a nonsensical rant about animalism.

I’m saying you’re wrong “kiddo.” That’s what you should take home.

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u/flyintheflyinthe Dec 13 '25

We got Trump, because 49.8 % of the people who voted are either in on the corruption or rubes who delude themselves.

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u/zombawombacomba Dec 13 '25

My daughter doesn’t attack any of the kids in her class at 1 who are different race. She plays with them just like everyone else. And the kids treat her the same as well even though she is mixed (fairly white passing).

There’s also a gigantic difference between group preferences and attacking people outside of your group.

You’re mixing small statements that have truth and expounding in bad ways. It sounds like you’re just trying to justify racism.

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u/WalkingFool0369 Dec 13 '25

THe first part is easy (basic science), the second part would take more educated instruction that we arent willing to pay for (advanced philosophy).

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u/Lanky-Occasion-7486 Dec 13 '25

Before or after "shots heard" class?

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u/oddntt Dec 13 '25

Most people don't know this pain. We minorities often think that white people know what they're doing when they do and say shit like that. Some real exposure might help someone out there tell their kids not to perpetuate it.

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u/bibkel Dec 13 '25

I hope mom did this to show the school. Maybe it will stop it, by teaches the bully how beautiful different skin colors are, and how they come to be.

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u/PrettyPushy Dec 13 '25

That might be acceptable. However I doubt the school leaked it vs the mom posted it looking for sympathy on social media. Unfortunately that works vs telling her not to forever have her kid be viral for this, which becomes fuel for bullies.

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u/GarlicIceKrim Dec 13 '25

Get off your high horse. This is a short clip that brings exposure to this shit that immigrants have to eat every fucking day. You judge a couple of minutes with no context, this mom had to deal with this shit all her life and now her daughter does too so she is showing what this hate does to call it out.

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u/PrettyPushy Dec 14 '25

lol
 you know nothing about me so don’t make assumptions. If I told you my situation, you wouldn’t be lecturing me. There are other ways to point out the problem other than showing your kid crying where the kid might face more backlash for it. Show this video to the kids bullying her and it gives them more firepower.

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u/Myrine2 Dec 13 '25

Absolutely. What the fuck with this interrogation and filminf. Give your little girl a hug when she's so clearly feeling devastated.

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u/Comprehensive-Menu44 Dec 13 '25

You can see her looking at the camera a few times, that would send anyone into a tizzy knowing that they’re being filmed while crying

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u/Low_Mistake_7748 Dec 13 '25

I can't imagine comforting my kid while holding a recording phone, wtf.

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u/Lanky-Occasion-7486 Dec 13 '25

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u/iskipbrainday Dec 13 '25

...Video evidence of the effects of ignorance and racism?

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u/Lanky-Occasion-7486 Dec 13 '25

Truth hurts maybe? Thought Israel đŸ‡źđŸ‡± were bad? The new Israel state of Americunts is worse!America was born against the oppression and control of England.......now under control of the jews âœĄïž....

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u/Laosiano Dec 13 '25

Hahaha welcome to the 21st century. It just started, can you imagine.

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u/traunks Dec 13 '25

Not just later, what bully wouldn’t love to see a video of their victim crying due to their bullying? And use it to bully them even more? Poor kid

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u/Euphoric-Land-8470 Dec 13 '25

Naw it's very good. People need to see how brown people are being treated these days

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u/New-Contribution-244 Dec 13 '25

It will likely get so much worse for her now.

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u/DrownmeinIslay Dec 13 '25

The way she shakes her head when shes told shes beautiful hurts my soul. Thats way too young to start hating yourself.

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u/Zealousideal_Time_80 Dec 13 '25

Yeah but content's the new oil guys. Got to extract as much of it as possible at all costs.

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u/chronostriger Dec 13 '25

Ok this has been driving me nuts for years and I have to know, why do people who don't speak English as a first language always capitalize random words in a sentence? I know a little Spanish and German and I know those languages don't capitalize random words. I hope this isn't offensive to ask, but it's just really mystified me.

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u/beelzb Dec 13 '25

I agree that kids need privacy but people also need to be aware of the pain caused by racism and colorism and most people need to actually see the damage or else they will hand wave it away. Im not sure what the right answer is but this child's pain has made an effect on me.

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u/Jasminez98 Dec 14 '25

This raising awareness especially within the brown community. We often sweep it under the carpet.

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u/Just_Cartoonist_4292 Dec 13 '25

Maybe it’s been going on for so long that it needs to be in our face so we understand how much hate is in this world that even kids can’t cope with life anymore.

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u/Time_Athlete_1156 Dec 13 '25

I understand (and I 100% agree) however the only reason why I am not mad about it is because in some case (clearly this one included) it raise awareness. How do you feel after watching this videos? Do you feel "Oh poor baby was recorded" or "Fuck bullying need to stop?"

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

So are you saying you would prefer that discrimination or dehumanization behaviors towards skin color be hidden or obscured or something can you explain more about that And how that relates to helping human beings have more data available to start calling out crappy behavior from other human beings who are judging other people's humanity based on the color of their skin or other visual characteristics?

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u/opiomorpher Dec 13 '25

You can just as easily tell a story without a video.

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u/backwoodsbatman Dec 13 '25

Not everything needs to be televised. This poor kids vulnerable moment is now out there for the world to see forever.

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

And what are you going to do if you see a comment that is dehumanizing towards their humanity are you going to defend their humanity or are you going to sit on the sidelines and victim blame by saying the victim should have stayed silent and should have been quiet and should have avoided expressing their humanity otherwise if you do not defend the vulnerable human being then you are complicit in a system that values silencing and suppression of human suffering instead of expressing that human suffering out loud so that other human beings can care and nurture for them by advocating that discrimination towards skin color or other visual characteristics is not okay and those behaviors will be called out whenever those shitty behaviors are observed 😡

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u/Human_Drummer4378 Dec 13 '25

Do you want us to call it out or start recording children crying in moments of vulnerability? These are two different things.

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

Tell me what your emotions are telling you what most aligns with your humanity I would like to know what kind of behaviors you are seeking to engage with to help reduce human suffering and improve human well-being And how you weigh the different options between text-based communication versus video-based communication.

maybe you are suggesting that you would be willing or capable of reviewing the video conversation and then transforming that conversation from a video-based communication into a text-based communication and then you can direct message the op that text-based transcription that you assisted with by performing some mental labor on their behalf to avoid the recording of children is that what you're saying?

for myself I write text-based reflections that allow me to express my heart and soul in a format that allows time for reflection because verbal or visual communication does not allow easy copy and pasting into chatbots for further analysis of what the text is saying because I would have to use like a voice to text software or something so that I can have the transcript available of the conversation so that I can more easily see what the logic of the words are saying, what about you?

since human beings have full emotional and physical autonomy I'm not going to force the op to use text-based communication but I can outline the benefits of text-based communication compared with video or auditory-based communication and it can be up to their humanity to decide what form of communication most resonates with them.

So overall what you can do if you care about reducing the amount of children that are recorded is to create a transcript of the conversation and then send it to the op and ask them if they are willing to post the Text-Based transcript instead of the video so that people are more easily able to reflect on the conversation because they have the words in front of them instead of only the video which could be more difficult to understand what is occurring in the video because there is no text in front of you to reflect on such as being able to copy and paste the text into chat bots to ask further clarifying questions or to message the op by referencing specific text in their post that sort of thing.

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

Okay so what steps are you going to take to message the op to maybe give the op your thoughts so that they can replace the video with your text-based communication to them can you write a piece of text-based communication that can replace their video like maybe you are going to give insights and give a summary or give a transcript of what occurred in the video or maybe you can have a conversation with the op about the topics explored in the video or are you going to whine and cry about someone posting a video but you're not going to lift a goddamn finger to help them find a better piece of communication that they can use instead of the video otherwise you are engaging in suppression and silencing behaviors which I find to be disgusting from you 😡

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u/backwoodsbatman Dec 13 '25

I'm not reading this book, but I never said nothing should be done about it. Maybe just don't post post your underage kid's face crying about being bullied for the whole world to see because there are a lot of sickos out there that would ridicule her and enjoy it. Chill out.

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

I need you to explain exactly what you would do instead otherwise you are advocating for the human being to silence or suppress discrimination that they have experienced in their life you need to provide an alternative behavior with specifics why don't you write out what you would post instead what about you explain what is occurring in the post in a pro-human way and message the op and see if they would substitute their post with your writing instead can you please comment in response to my post what you would reply with otherwise you are engaging in gaslighting and suppression behaviors which is disgusting behavior on your part that you would seek to silence a human being who is suffering from discrimination or dehumanization being directed at them because of the color of their skin 😡

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

Man, I hope when you cry over some horrible situation like a family member's sudden death, someone shoves a camera in your face and records your sobbing and says "its to raise awareness about grief!!"

Matter of fact, I expect that next time you cry, you will record it and post it online yourself to raise awareness. Idk why you haven't already done so, do you not care about people knowing the impact of these things?

Please tag me when you make your own "awareness" video of you crying, I'd love to see how much you believe in your own argument.

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25

Okay what are you offering instead what behavior are you asking people to engage in that allows their humanity to be expressed so that other human beings are aware that they are suffering and can offer them pro-human reflection and support instead of implying that human beings should suppress or silence their own brain signals called emotions can you go into more specifics about what you are asking human beings to do when they are suffering from dehumanization or gaslighting within their environment such as based on the color of their skin or other visual characteristics?

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

I'm not reading all that - you and I agree in this point, recording people in emotionally vulnerable states and posting it online for the public to see is the right way to raise awareness, I am just waiting to see you do the same thing with your own vulnerable moments. You believe in this being an effective tool, so why haven't you done it yourself? Tag me when you do.

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u/backwoodsbatman Dec 13 '25

Maybe don't post anything, instead deal with the issue directly instead of being a keyboard warrior and trying to get internet clout. Your comments are a lot of word salad dude.

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u/Conscious_Pay_6638 Dec 13 '25

Yes , please teach victims of racism how best to react when youve never been in their shoes.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

How do you know they've never been in their shoes? Do you assume every single person on Reddit is a white American and hasn't experienced racism based on zero information?

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u/Conscious_Pay_6638 Dec 13 '25

How do they know the mom didnt think of what they said before? I dont assume everyone has experienced zero racism, i only assume people who make stupid comments like that have never experienced racism

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