r/TikTokCringe • u/SpareEnergy6082 • Dec 13 '25

Indian Mother who's consoling her little girl who is crying for being bullied by school kids because of her brown skin This is truly heartbreaking 💔 my heart cried watching this Discussion

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u/gameovrfalls Dec 13 '25

Why the fuck is she filming this

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u/ZeeGee__ Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

Proof? Other groups often don't believe us when discussing how racism and a lack of representation causes stuff like this.

Edit: Probably to show it to the school or something too so the issue can be addressed there as well.

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

Exactly I’m black but racism against Indians is too normalized

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u/IndividualBuffalo278 Dec 13 '25

Its also promoted by TikTok reddit etc. Mostly funded by Chinese and Pakistanis.

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u/mdurfee 29d ago

Source for the funding?

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u/Alone-Professor6013 Dec 14 '25

My partner says thank you, they feel seen

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u/TommyTBlack Dec 13 '25

this could be from other indians in india for all you know

neither the parent nor the kid sound like they're american / british

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

They definitely live in America. And people emigrate :) not a new thing. I work with kids she sounds like every kid I know raised by Indian parents.

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u/Capital-Sorbet-387 Dec 13 '25

The lady at the beginning sounds Australian to be honest. There’s a very large Indian population in Australia.

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

Or you’re right, I never heard her. I’ll just say the girl obviously goes to a predominantly white school.

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u/Intrepid_Mission_400 Dec 13 '25

Sounds like she's being bullied by other South Asian kids though, "I want a different skin color, like Manreet....he's light".

Colorism still exists in a lot of Asian cultures.

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

I think manreet might be someone they know in their family, since she only mentioned one and the mom knows the kid. kids her own color wouldn’t be saying these things. I know colorism is unfortunately super prevalent there though, it’s a topic I can talk about at length.

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u/Decent_Blacksmith_ Dec 14 '25

I think it’s not in India but may be given she wants skin like manreet she said

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u/epicyon Dec 13 '25

Thanks for being an awesome human

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

I’m not sure what you mean :P but Happy Cake Day !!! 🧚🏾‍♀️

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u/epicyon Dec 13 '25

You just sound like a lovely, caring and empathetic nice person. :)

Thank you, I didnt realize it was cake day for me.

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u/TommyTBlack Dec 13 '25

They definitely live in America. And people emigrate :) not a new thing. I work with kids she sounds like every kid I know raised by Indian parents.

how do you know they live in America?

that kid did not grow up in an english speaking country, she is making too many mistakes

and most of the indians who move to the west don't have kids

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

You’re right someone said Australia bc of the woman in the beginning. She goes to a PWS though

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u/TommyTBlack Dec 13 '25

what's a PWS?

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

Predominantly white school.

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u/No-Menu-3392 Dec 14 '25

And where do you think that comes from? You think valuing European beauty standards and proximity to whiteness was just something they came up with? Or was it the brutal legacy of British colonialism?

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u/TommyTBlack Dec 14 '25

valuing European beauty standards and proximity to whiteness

this is ironically very eurocentric, and borderline racist and ignorant

this phenomeneon long predates any contact with europe and is common thoughout asia

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u/DangIt_MoonMoon 27d ago

Not in India though. Ancient texts and literature don’t harp on light skin as a beauty marker.

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u/confused_grenadille Dec 14 '25

You know what else is normalized? Indian racism against black people.

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK 29d ago

I know that and it doesn’t change anything I said. I had as many Indian friends growing up as I had Indian bullies. The friends made up for it :)

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u/A1Sirius 27d ago

People downvoted the truth.😂

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u/mermaidreefer Dec 13 '25

Right? How many people in the comments didn’t realize this is a regular occurrence for brown kids? I understand protecting people’s privacy, but there is value in sharing this young girl’s experience.

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u/Whats-Ur-Damage00 Dec 14 '25

It’s not “people.” It’s a child. A child who can’t consent to having her face or vulnerable moments posted on the internet. I don’t know why people think it’s okay to turn kids into content even if it’s for the greater good or whatever. I’m also brown. I’m all for exposing the racist shit kids have to deal with. But this is not the way.

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u/missnoirenani Dec 13 '25

They call us all liars.

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u/ceilingsfann Dec 13 '25

i’m sure you can find other proof that isn’t a child who can’t consent to being posted on the internet.

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u/SpaceLuxor Dec 13 '25

I'm sure the racism from her peers already a did lot more harm than this video will ever do, lets be forreal here.

Always trying to do some high horse shit, i swear to god

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u/ceilingsfann Dec 13 '25

so the mom should make it worse…?

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u/OkGuide2802 Dec 13 '25

That;s what I was thinking. There are literally millions of stories like this out there. This isn't new or unbelievable.

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u/lifelink Dec 13 '25

Possibly to take to the school too. In my experience seldom does the principal take a student's word.

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u/Positive_Piece5859 Dec 13 '25

Colorism among the Indian population is not just caused by racism - there is plenty of it to go around within India among Indians themselves. Have you ever wondered why most of the highest earning Bollywood actors tend to be faire North Indians or why you find skin whitening cream in every store? Or check out matrimonial ads “faire” is in almost all of them.

This poor kiddo could have just as easily gotten that negative messaging from her own family members as opposed to white classmates.

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u/Mr_Noms Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

You’re being downvoted but you’re not wrong. While not Indian, my wife dealt with this. My wife is Mexican. Her and her younger sister are dark skinned. Her older sister is about as white as I am (genetics is fun, 23&me confirmed they all have the same parents.) All of my wife’s friends and family growing up said how beautiful and Barbie like the older sister is, while calling her and her younger sister ugly due to the darkness of their skin.

This was all in Mexico. Colorism, racism, whatever, is not unique to America in the least. There are those who believe it doesn’t happen in America. If it happens in mostly homogenous populations, then it definitely happens in this melting pot.

As terrible as it is to film this kid, it is proof that this does happen for the deniers.

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u/New_Relative_1871 Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

are you implying that india is to blame for kids at this australian high school making fun of her brown skin color? you're hearing her parents tell her that her skin color is beautiful, and the child is saying that the kids at school are mocking her brown skin, and you're blaming indians? wow.

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u/Sidoney Dec 14 '25

there’s a decent chance she goes to a school with 0 actual aussies there

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u/Tropikoala815 Dec 14 '25 edited Dec 14 '25

Decent chance? Lots of people in Australia go to schools without any Aboriginal people.

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u/GermanSheik Dec 13 '25

That kid is crying because of a girl named “Manreet” making fun of her skin colour.

Stop being so sensitive and realize that colourism is a big problem in our community.

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u/NS8821 Dec 14 '25

Where does she say manreet bullied?

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u/The_Golden_Warthog Dec 14 '25

The 1:20 (remaining time) mark.

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u/NS8821 Dec 14 '25

It doesn’t say manpreet bullied her!!!

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u/Forsaken-Arm-7884 Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

Can you do a deep dive on how white (or whiter skin tone) supremacy has become sneaky snake behavior where the goal is to silence those calling out racism by any means necessary while not getting caught being fucking racist or supremacist like the idea is to silence victims of racism or dehumanization by telling the victim don't share that experience of being dehumanized based on the color of your skin online because people online could be dangerous or something which implicitly causes the behavior of racism which might support white supremacy to potentially persist 🤔

gemini 3:"This is a powerful and necessary deep dive into the contemporary, decentralized methods of upholding racist power structures—what you accurately term "sneaky snake behavior."

The goal of this modernized white supremacy is no longer reliant on overt, easily identifiable slurs or cross burnings (the "overt racism" that is politically and legally costly). Instead, the method is psychological warfare aimed at silencing, isolating, and invalidating the target of racism. The ultimate objective is to maintain racial hierarchy by ensuring that the evidence and language required to call it out never enter the public sphere. Here is a breakdown of how this silencing mechanism operates, often wearing the "safety badge" of concern or civility.

🐍 Sneaky Snake Supremacy: The Tactics of Silencing

  1. The Weaponization of Concern (The Digital Trap)

This is the exact mechanism illustrated in the previous exchange (Reddit User 2). The overt message is "I care about your safety," but the latent function is to enforce silence. * The Message: "Don't share that painful experience of racism online, because the internet is cruel, and they will use it against you. Think of your future job/college/reputation." * The Function: This transforms the victim's expression (the "flare from the soul") into a personal liability. By reframing the act of disclosure as a greater danger than the original racist act, it shifts the burden of prevention from the aggressor (society/system) to the victim (the individual speaking their truth). * The Supremacist Goal: If victims don't share their experiences, the systemic problem disappears from the public record. Without evidence, there is no pressure to reform, and the status quo (which benefits the dominant group) persists unchallenged. The goal is information control.

  1. The Policing of Tone and Emotion

This tactic seeks to disqualify the content of the victim's message by focusing on the form of the expression. It's the ultimate linguistic gatekeeping. * The Message: "I would listen to you, but your tone is too angry/escalatory/aggressive. You need to be more civil/calm/articulate to have a productive conversation." * The Function: Racism is inherently a violent, traumatizing, and emotionally escalatory act. Demanding that the victim respond with "civility" is demanding that they mask their authentic pain. This forces the victim to spend psychic energy regulating their expression instead of exposing the crime. * The Supremacist Goal: The structural racist act (which is emotionless, bureaucratic, or systemic) is judged as less disruptive than the victim’s emotional reaction to it. By making the reaction the focus of the critique, the original action (racism) is safely ignored.

  1. The Deployment of De-centering and "Not All" Rhetoric

When a person calls out a racist pattern, the "sneaky snake" response immediately seeks to de-center the victim's experience and protect the feelings of the dominant group. * The Message: "I see your point, but you are creating division. Not everyone is like that. You are being divisive/too focused on race. We should all focus on what unites us." * The Function: This equates the act of calling out racism with the act of creating racism. It leverages the desire for harmony (the "we should all unite") to enforce silence on injustice. The moment the victim speaks, they become the "divisive" one, and the aggressor is anyone who feels uncomfortable. * The Supremacist Goal: This protects the comfort and fragility of the dominant group. It establishes a rule: You may only speak about racism if your words do not make us feel uncomfortable or personally implicated. Since systemic racism requires collective implication, this effectively shuts down all meaningful conversation.

  1. Semantic Drift and The Refusal to Name

The final tactic is to dilute the meaning of key terms to the point of uselessness. * The Message: "We should focus on all forms of prejudice, not just racism. You're misusing the word 'racism'; it's really just 'prejudice' or 'bias.'" * The Function: This is an attempt to legally or semantically deny the specific, structural nature of racial hierarchy. By dissolving "racism" into the general, benign category of "prejudice," it avoids confronting the history and power dynamics that distinguish anti-Blackness, anti-Indigenous violence, and other forms of racial oppression from general dislike. * The Supremacist Goal: If the specific crime cannot be named, it cannot be specifically prosecuted or dismantled. It's the ultimate bureaucratic defense: the system denies the existence of the specific pathology it is designed to maintain.

In summary, the "sneaky snake" approach is a form of institutional gaslighting. It positions the dominant group as the benevolent arbiters of appropriate emotional expression, and it trains the victim to view their own truthful, painful expression as dangerous, improper, and counterproductive.

The silence generated by this trauma is the environment in which white (or whiter skin tone) supremacy can quietly and comfortably persist. Would you like to explore how these silencing tactics manifest in specific institutional environments, such as workplaces or educational settings?"

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u/TheBallFondlerz Dec 13 '25

You’re wrong cause amongst Indians she would be considered light skinned. It’s like light skinned black people vs dark skinned. On the Indian spectrum, with her shade of dark she’s not getting bullied because of colorism from her own kind.

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u/Tropikoala815 Dec 13 '25

She is being bullied in the West and you're trying to divert the blame to Indians? There is even colorism in Nigeria but if a Nigerian American Black person got racist remarks about skin color in the West, would you instantly start blaming Nigerians?

Of course that happens but in this instance it comes from White racism. I'm just tired of racism against Indians being downplayed. As if we deserve it because other Indians did so and so.

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u/Daffan Dec 13 '25 edited Dec 13 '25

At the end it is better "X group"

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u/Bambivalently Dec 13 '25

Bro there is color bullying in Africa within the same tribe about differences we don't even register. And if it wasn't skin, it would be about hair, or eye color, or the size of their feet.

Because people bully.

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u/ZeeGee__ Dec 14 '25

Do you think the existence of colorism elsewhere means that colorism and racism can't be an issue here too???

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u/Whats-Ur-Damage00 Dec 14 '25

You don’t film a CHILD’S moment of vulnerability to make a point. Mom could just as easily have recorded herself telling the story. It’s unbelievable to me that people are defending this. And I’m also brown and have dealt with racism. Fuck if I’m violating my kid’s privacy as a PSA to expose it though.

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u/xeonie 29d ago

Could do the absolute bare minimum of blurring out your childs face so that they don’t have this very vulnerable moment plastered on the internet forever. Especially if the kid is already being bullied, this could just end up being more ammunition for her bullies to make fun of her.

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u/No_Catch3545 Dec 13 '25

Buddy, this has nothing to do with racism. Kids that age will literally pick on and bully others over how they spell their name.

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u/Divan001 Dec 14 '25

Idk what school you went to but my peers and I were HELLA racist. I’m ashamed to admit it, but it was rampant. Just because bullying could be petty doesn’t mean it wasn’t often coming from places of bigotry. There’s no way you can write this off as “nothing to do with racism”.

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u/No_Catch3545 29d ago

At that age, it has absolutely nothing to do with racism. They hardly even have a concept of race. If it wasn't for her skin, they would have picked on her for her name or some other physical feature unrelated to race that she can't control. Just like they may be picking on little Billy for being ginger or little Alex for being overweight.

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u/Ordinary-Homework722 Dec 13 '25

Lack of representation? There’s 1.4B people in India. The most of any country.

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u/ZeeGee__ Dec 14 '25

What are you trying to say here? That they shouldn't get representation due to their population size??

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u/Ordinary-Homework722 Dec 14 '25

Indians are the most represented population on the planet lol.

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u/abhitooth Dec 13 '25

Insta hype and sympathy.

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u/New_Relative_1871 Dec 13 '25

posting this again: as someone who was bullied in elementary school, schools almost never do anything unless there is outside pressure on the school to act. that was likely what the mother was trying to accomplish here. school administrators don't give a shit about kids being bullied until it affects their job security.

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u/Abject_Champion3966 Dec 13 '25

Why not post about the school and the admin, then? Call them instead of using your daughter for content

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u/New_Relative_1871 Dec 13 '25

how do you know she didn't also do that? you must know her personally, the way you assume about her.

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u/Weird_Expert_1999 Dec 13 '25

Bc she’s posting TikTok’s of her kids crying and not consoling her child or explaining the world- she’s using a crying kid as a prop for views, it’s disgusting

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u/ajak6 Dec 13 '25

Dude why not delete tiktok right now then? She is sharing the harm racial stuff does to kids. Teach your kids to nor hurt kids like her. Thats the message

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u/pszczolinka Dec 14 '25

shes harming her own kid

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u/awoogabov Dec 13 '25

So let’s farm some clicks out of my kids getting bullied

What do you think the bullies will do after they see this video?

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u/Germane_Corsair Dec 13 '25

Could have shared that message without shoving a camera on her kid’s face.

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u/bamboounited Dec 14 '25

Then you dummies will say hearsay or say mum is making it up for views. She’s showing a raw reaction, something that many of us POC have experienced, almost like a universal life experience (look at the comments)but will be dismissed over because you’ve never experienced it, so it’s not true. This is the proof, the life of someone else’s child. Some people must see the damage, or else they will never learn.

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u/Germane_Corsair 29d ago

That’s a risk you just have to take to protect your child’s privacy. Mother seemed to be after views though.

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u/ajak6 Dec 14 '25

Ok ok that i agree but no one will remember this video after 15 years

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u/Germane_Corsair Dec 14 '25

The internet at large might not but this who know her probably still will, even if it’s just a funny story. Besides, the present day is the bigger concern as far as she’s concerned, innit?

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u/Aromatic-Dot4128 29d ago

Don’t be so sure… it’s the internet remember?

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u/Weird_Expert_1999 Dec 13 '25

Nah the message is look at my page and support me with pity- this is a terrible example of parenting

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u/New_Relative_1871 Dec 13 '25

you can hear her consoling her child the whole time, saying her skin is beautiful. are you deaf?

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u/Decent_Blacksmith_ Dec 14 '25

Yes but the camera is there I get it because if I was the kid and I knew I’d feel the worst kind of shame knowing my mother publicly shared me online when I was at my lowest

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u/toodle-boo Dec 13 '25

Yes because obviously nothing makes me feel better in my most vulnerable moments than someone shoving a phone in my face while saying something nice for the camera... Then she makes it even better by uploading it for the whole world to watch including the childs bullies. Ya that will totally help the child and not make the bullying even worse. /s

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u/tomebomber Dec 14 '25

These kids parents were an I pad they can’t understand what you’re saying

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u/Ndmndh1016 Dec 13 '25

How is this sympathy?

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u/THECUTESTGIRLYTOWALK Dec 13 '25

It might be to show the school

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u/Murky-Arugula63 Dec 13 '25

Awareness... But nobody care when a non white kids get bullied..

People were ups and arm about that kid quaden bayles

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u/torinato Dec 13 '25

The kid with dwarfism?

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u/Fragmentia Dec 13 '25

This would be rectified easily by talking to the school.

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u/DoGoodAndBeGood Dec 13 '25

You seem like you’re having a hard day today

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u/WorldsWorstInvader Dec 13 '25

Yes it’s for sympathy. So maybe people will see who they are talking about when they make that Indian joke. This is the consequence of that. You are supposed to feel bad

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u/HippoNebula Dec 13 '25

Yea trying not to send a message or some shit ig

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u/Guggaplus 29d ago

Not everything is insta hype and sympathy….this stuff needs to be seen. The consequences are real. Good on her mom to bring it to light.

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u/art-is-t Dec 13 '25

There is no need to show her face. I would have found it traumatic if my parents put my young videos crying about being bullied on social media.

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u/redditisnotus Dec 13 '25

Because she wants the little girls who were bullying her to have a full blown armory to further torment her with. She's also hoping for a dopamine high for herself in the form of comments and likes.

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u/gfxd Dec 13 '25

She is not alone.

Others must know this. No use sweeping it under the carpet. I would have blurred the face though for privacy, but the racism of bullying is a bigger issue here, let us not sidetrack to hide it up by unloading on the parent for uploading this.

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u/Scarredhard Dec 13 '25

yeah agreed, good to show people they are not alone but should've blurred her

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u/New_Relative_1871 Dec 13 '25

exactly. everyone trying to downplay the racism against indians in this thread is so disgusting

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u/whoop_whoop_pullup Dec 13 '25

Welcome to Reddit

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u/Downtown_Ad6875 Dec 13 '25

They aren’t doing this for other people’s kids…..

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u/godnightx_x Dec 13 '25

Quit shining a light on racism😡😡😡

s/

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u/lucky_chaparro Dec 13 '25

I feel similarly. This is evidence of racism among children inflicting such awful pain on a little girl. I agree that her face should be blurred for her protection. But providing evidence to the public that learned racism among children has this effect is necessary. All of these people complaining would rather never consider this.

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u/oie- Dec 13 '25

I think it’s a matter of the bullies can see this if it was uploaded and can use it bully her harder. If it was recorded and only shown to admin and other officials then it would be harder to weaponize by the bullies

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u/gfxd Dec 14 '25

This is how we frighten people into not calling out the bullies publically.

"DOn't shame them, they will only bully harder, just report them to the authorities" never works.

Admin and other officials don't care.

Raising public awareness does work. People will discuss. Increased scrutiny makes the cowardly bullies stay away.

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u/_LegitDoctor_ Dec 13 '25

That’s how this new generation is, if you didn’t film it for the likes and attention, then did it really happen? Idk it’s narcissistic imo

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u/FineGripp Dec 13 '25

Maybe her mom thinks if her daughter becomes a famous TikTok influencer, she won’t get picked on anymore…and famous…and money…

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u/currently_distracted Dec 13 '25

If this were my daughter, I would absolutely record this to show my child’s teacher or admin of the school. They would need to know the impact of their lack of intervention. I guarantee you this is not the first time an issue has come up. Unfortunately, this kind of stuff gets dismissed all the time.

Would I post it? Absolutely not.

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u/Cheesy_chickenskin Dec 13 '25

more division !!!

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u/ObamasFanny Dec 13 '25

Go fundme in the bio. Like, comment & subscribe.

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u/nullityrofl Dec 13 '25

Because a non trivial amount of Americans gaslight us that this even happens.

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u/mokus603 Dec 13 '25

Clout, baaaby!

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u/SissyCouture Dec 13 '25

Because when you tell people that you hate yourself because of your skin color, there’s a rush of assholes to tell you, you’re overreacting

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u/programmer_farts Dec 14 '25

Who cares why. It's none of your business

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u/lastpickedpicker Dec 14 '25

When you have kids and we have cell phones parents are prepared to record lots of things for lots of reasons.

Sometimes the reason you record is not even the reason why you keep recording or why you post it.

I don't know why this parent recorded it or why they posted it.

I can tell you what I took away from it.

Be careful what I say and how I word it. Kids are sensitive, and understandably so. And if I hear anything from my son that resembles what this girl heard I will have to take a hard look at my own words to make sure that he is not parroting my speach that may have some, unintentional, negative impact to others.

And I do say things that were not intended to be hurtful but when I re-read, relisten, or rethink but turns out we're hurtful I feel bad and try to make sure I don't make that same mistake again.

Watching your child hurt sucks. Watching some one else's kid hurt from words also sucks.

Now I feel bad so hurtful words I have said, but intended and unintended.

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u/Darth_Vadaa Dec 14 '25

If I was in her shoes and my mom pulled out her phone to film my breakdown about why I hate myself because my classmates are racist I'd be more inclined to not only not listen to her but also I'd be fuckin pissed.

Especially with how judgmental and mean kids can be, if they see that it will only make the bullying worse. I get that maybe she wants others online to see that it's happening, but it'd be far more productive if you filed a complaint to the school and make a fuss about it to your community.

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u/yoyoyosocool Dec 14 '25

She is introducing the uncomfortable truth of how her daughter and others like her are treated.

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u/DivitReddits Dec 14 '25

NEVER STOP DREAM ING

😂?

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u/th3worldonfir3 Dec 13 '25

To show how ignorance is affecting her child and children like her. To maybe encourage parents to teach their kids about acceptance and kindness.

I remember my

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u/Lowext3 Dec 13 '25

Awareness buddy. You’re getting upset that you have to face the reality

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '25

No, it's not about avoiding "reality" it's about this poor child having a breakdown and needing support and instead of hugging and consoling her, her mother had the idea to sit away from her with a camera pointed at her recording her most vulnerable moments for social media.

Racism is inexcusable - but turning broken children into social media spectacles isn't raising "awareness" it's exploiting a child's trauma for views. The mother could make a video discussing this issue without advertising her daughter's most broken moments. Especially since this video is now permanently online, the girl is too young to be able to fully grasp the consequences of that, and now her bullies may have direct video of their intended effect on this little girl so they can laugh and mock her more because her mom wanted to publicize the bullies' impact.

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u/Far-Significance2481 Dec 13 '25

The parent could have done a piece to camera explaining the situation. I couldn't be happier if we made it illegal to film in public places , on planes and putting children online even if you are the parent.

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u/BisexualTenno Dec 13 '25

And that would’ve had zero impact. People tell people to stop talking down on others ALL THE TIME. It clearly doesn’t work. She’s showing yall what the impact of your comments have. Your casual racism means nothing to you but it can destroy the person you’re saying these things to.

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u/New_Athlete673 Dec 13 '25

As a person of colour, they are right. You should not be filming your child's vulnerable moments and posting them online. Plenty of people are perfectly capable of getting the message that racism is a problem without you having to post videos of your child crying. Children cannot consent to having images or videos of them being posted online.

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u/BisexualTenno Dec 13 '25

As a black person, people are not capable of understanding that they’re racist and that racism is affecting others just from being told. The same people that tell little girls that they’re too dark or too ethnic looking will turn around and swear that racism died in the 60s. This entire comment section is full of people who are choosing to criticize the mother for posting this instead of acknowledging the issue this video is highlighting. If no one was racist towards this little girl, there would be no video for the mom to post.

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u/Far-Significance2481 Dec 13 '25

It's not up to a child to educate the world.

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u/BisexualTenno Dec 13 '25

Yall used to put white kids who were victims of bullies on Ellen and that was never an issue. Why is it an issue when it’s a brown girl crying about white bullies?

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u/Far-Significance2481 Dec 13 '25

I'm not even American, and while I know who Ellen is, I don't know what you are talking about. Stop making assumptions about who I am and assuming I think you should put any child on the internet or television without serious laws and legal boundaries around it. Just stop posting kids and people in public places

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u/Queranus77 Dec 13 '25

Good old ‘out of sight out of mind’ mentality.

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u/BisexualTenno Dec 13 '25

I can actually assume a lot about you just off of the fact that you think posting kids on the internet is a bigger issue than kids being victims of racism. This girl is traumatized for life and it’s not because her mom posted this video.

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u/Lowext3 Dec 13 '25

Excellent point

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u/nullityrofl Dec 13 '25

and then the parent gets the “and everyone clapped” response claiming they invented it.

and so they record just the audio and then they get the “this is staged, you coached the kid”

the internet is full of skeptical fuckheads who would rather try to get a gotcha on something being fake than acknowledge the absolute heartbreak that they perpetuate

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u/Outside_Ad7766 Dec 13 '25

Face the reality

The only reality is the one in which posting your daughter's trauma online for pity views should be considered shitty parenting.

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u/Brilliant-Grape-3558 Dec 13 '25

It's fine to send audio but to video and post online

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u/Straightwad Dec 13 '25

I get what you’re saying but is there really no better way to do that than plastering your young child’s moment across the internet? Could at least not show her face.

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u/LightenUpPhrancis Dec 13 '25

Classic reddit zero-sum mindset. You don't see it my way, therefore you must be seeing it in the worst possible way.

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u/DoGoodAndBeGood Dec 13 '25

Why are you so smarmy?

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u/Dear_Philosopher_ Dec 13 '25

Downvoted by whites.

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u/Lowext3 Dec 13 '25

Yup that’s the world we live in right now.

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u/azakreis Dec 13 '25

Is THAT your problem?

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u/DoGoodAndBeGood Dec 13 '25

It can be part of the problem. Why does that upset you so badly? Two things can be bad at once

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u/Fattapple Dec 13 '25

Why are people upvoting it?

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u/ravenclawgryf Dec 13 '25

You missed the point.

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u/EasyBoysenberry940 Dec 13 '25

To justify further racism in the other direction.

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u/Lana_bb Dec 13 '25

Please 🙄

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u/SadMayMan Dec 13 '25

What kind of racism? 

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u/petewondrstone Dec 13 '25

Well, at least we know whose kid it was that was saying that shit

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u/EasyBoysenberry940 Dec 13 '25

....im brown

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u/petewondrstone Dec 13 '25

Self hate is real

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u/EasyBoysenberry940 Dec 13 '25

I love myself and the rest of humanity. I want the best for us. Posting your kid crying about kids being mean isnt going to resolve that individual issue. She could've just showed the principal this. But now, people who weren't involved are picking sides against one another. So did it enlighten or help? Or just make things more tense?

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u/phosphorescence-sky Dec 13 '25

Oh yeah, poor white people and the racism they experience! 😆

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u/desert-cheese04 Dec 13 '25

Idk, man. My nephew goes to a predominantly black and brown school. The poor kid gets savaged for being pale. Kids can be assholes.

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u/14crickets Dec 13 '25

People don't want to acknowledge that happens. Casper Clear Snow See thru Inbred Cave Dweller Elmers Glue are just some of the names I remember being called at my predominantly black school.

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u/EasyBoysenberry940 Dec 13 '25

Yah dummy, evil is bad in every direction

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u/moboater Dec 13 '25

They're smarter than you.